Testing & Tracking
You can't manage what you don't measure. Here's exactly what to test, when, and how to use the results to advocate for yourself.
Knowledge is power — especially when doctors dismiss you. Many women are told their symptoms are "just stress" or "normal aging." Having data — tracked symptoms, test results, patterns — gives you the ammunition to push back and get proper care.
Essential Blood Tests
These tests create your baseline and help identify issues that can mimic or worsen menopause symptoms.
Imaging & Scans
Beyond blood work, these imaging studies provide critical information for this life stage.
- DEXA scan (bone density)
- Full lipid panel
- Fasting glucose / HbA1c
- Thyroid panel
- Vitamin D, B12, Ferritin
- Lipid panel
- Fasting glucose
- Blood pressure
- Vitamin D (if supplementing)
- Mammogram
- Thyroid panel (fatigue, weight)
- Ferritin (heavy bleeding)
- B12 (neurological symptoms)
- Cardiac workup (palpitations)
Symptom Tracking
Data beats memory. Tracking symptoms reveals patterns, proves severity, and arms you for doctor visits.
Preparing for Your Appointment
Come prepared. You often have 15 minutes. Make them count.
Bring With You
- Symptom tracking summary (2–4 weeks minimum)
- List of all current medications and supplements
- Date of last period and recent cycle patterns
- Family history: menopause age (mother/sisters), heart disease, osteoporosis, breast cancer
- Previous test results if switching doctors
- Written list of your top 3 concerns
Questions to Ask
- "Could these symptoms be related to perimenopause/menopause?"
- "What tests would you recommend to rule out other causes?"
- "What are my treatment options — hormonal and non-hormonal?"
- "Am I a candidate for HRT? What are my specific risks?"
- "When should I get a DEXA scan?"
- "What's my cardiovascular risk and what should I monitor?"
- "Can you refer me to a menopause specialist if needed?"
🔎 Finding the Right Doctor
- NAMS-certified practitioners: Use the directory
- Gynecologists with menopause focus
- Endocrinologists for complex hormone issues
- Functional medicine doctors (often more thorough testing)
- Telehealth menopause clinics: Midi, Evernow, Alloy
If your doctor dismisses your symptoms, find another doctor. You deserve to be heard.
🚩 Red Flags in a Provider
- "Your labs are normal, you're fine" (without addressing symptoms)
- "It's just stress / aging / in your head"
- "HRT is too dangerous" (outdated thinking)
- Unwilling to discuss treatment options
- Rushes through appointment without listening
- Prescribes antidepressants without exploring hormone connection
Self-Advocacy Scripts
What to say when you're not being heard. Use these phrases.